Talking & Reading

Your child's language begins long before their first word.

The more you talk, read, and sing together, the more words your child learns. Here is how to help.

Why it matters

  • The roots of language grow in your baby's brain even before they can talk.

  • The more words your child hears, the more words they learn. Words heard in the first 3 years are linked to bigger vocabularies by age 4.

  • Strong early language helps your child learn to read, do well in school, and connect with others.

Talk with your baby

  • Talk about what you are doing during everyday routines, like feeding, dressing, and bath time.

  • Respond to your baby's coos and babbles. This is their first try at talking, and your reply keeps them going.

  • Take turns. Pause and look at your baby so they know it is their turn. Babies start this back-and-forth as early as 3 months.

  • Name things, point, and ask simple questions, even with a baby.

  • Sing songs and play games like peekaboo.

Read together every day

  • Start early. Reading together from as young as 4 months helps.

  • Read a few minutes a day. Let your child hold the book and turn the pages.

  • Talk about the pictures. You do not have to read every word.

  • It is okay to read the same book over and over. Children learn through repetition.

  • Visit your local library for free books and story time.

A few things to know

  • There is a wide range for first words. Some children talk at 9 months, others at 18 months. What matters is that your child keeps moving forward with sounds, gestures, and words.

  • You do not need to “teach” your baby with flashcards or classes. Everyday talking, playing, reading, and singing work best.

  • Turn off background TV so your child can hear you and focus on play.

When to talk to your doctor

  • Your child is not babbling, pointing, or using gestures.

  • Your child is not saying words by around 18 months, or loses words they had.

What you can do now

  • Say out loud what you are doing as your child watches.

  • Read one book together today, and let them lead.

  • Sing a song at bath time or bedtime.

Learn more from trusted sources

Zero to Three, 5 Ways to Build Babies' Language

Zero to Three, Read Early and Often

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